Some people have, justifiably, been questioning some of my posts (here and on FB) regarding my opinions regarding equality. In particular as it relates to Title IX and Affirmative Action. I get it. Anyone who champions...
Category - Observation
When I left my job, one aspect of my last 10 years of software tools was conservatively valued as an asset on the corporation’s books. You do not know how rare that is for a programmer’s work, especially in the modern world...
I am an old man. I am a widower. Let us be absolutely honest. I will never encounter a vagina or breast up close an personal again. I will never enjoy , worship, and (yes) salivate on the physical particulars of the female...
On the day I asked Sandy to marry me she surprised me by giving me a card with a little statue of a knight in shining armor. She said that hat this was how she thought of me, and this was before I asked her to marry me. I...
Sandy, I seem to dwell on all of the things that I should of/could have done better when it comes to our life together. I screwed up too many times to even count. As I look back, there are so many times I could have made...
Sandy, You never doubted God or Heaven. You always knew that while I did not totally doubt either, I had my concerns about how it was being presented. This is not the place to talk about that. This is my hope...
You know even if the immigrants coming to this country are problematic, you got to feel for them. They come from places where they are politically oppressed, up to and including being hunted down and killed. They come from...
I consider Fort Bragg, California my hometown. I moved there in the middle of the 8th grade but I did not have any affinity for my previous communities or schools as I did for Fort Bragg. A large part of it has to be...
Sometimes a person has to present the cold hard facts in order to get their point across: Here is mine: If my kidneys and heart had been compatible with Sandy’s, I would have walked into her room with all of the...
What do I seem to remember most vividly? Sitting in the car. Sitting on the couch, reading or watching TV. Reaching over and holding your hand. Often for hours. Not letting go. No words said. None were needed. Fatigue...