I do not know when I will get past the loss of the love of my life. I am not even sure that the description is appropriate. Sandy was my best friend, my only friend, and the only friend I ever had or seemed to need.
I have seen and heard pontifications by people trying to describe their loss. I understand and embrace those losses. I have seen and heard people express how much of their life they would give to have their loved one back. I get it. I understand it. I sympathize with it. I embrace it. The only thing I do not accept, nor encourage, is prematurely joining one’s loved one.
But to put it plainly: I would give every minute of the rest of my life to just be able to hold Sandy one more time and tell her ”I love you” and ro hear her say, one more time ”I love you more” so that we could agree to disagree once again!
